I'm really growing to like taking complete responsibility for everything I do; it makes me feel so empowered, like I can do what I want, rather than just thinking it's just how I am or something. I can say to myself this is what happened, no excuses, no beating self up about it, it's not what I want, therefore I just won't do it again. It's scarey at first, there's always inate resistance, but once you begin to overcome that it's nice.